In looking at my life and the lives of others – I have come to discover that all life is about relationships, communication, and perception. Relationships with family, friends, co-workers, children, colleagues, finances, career, God, oneself, health, government, groups, etc. Since communication (verbal, nonverbal, and internal dialogue) serves as the primary interface for connecting with our relationships; then it naturally follows that perception is the primary filter for (a) what we see and (b) how we see it, and then (c) how we generate meaning and express ourselves [i.e. communication] in our relationships. So you may say, “that’s great Ra, all life is about relationships, communication, and perception….so what.”
Well, yes – in a very abstract sense all life is about relationships, communication, and perception; however, in a practical and concrete sense life is about much more than this. Having studied leadership theory and practice for nearly two years now, it has become clear that leadership and life are inextricably wedded together. For example, the fundamental aspect of all leadership practice….is dun, dun, dun (drum beat…………….) Self-Leadership. Below, you will see a model that I have created which in some ways is a culmination of leadership theory and practice. This model has not been empirically tested, nor have double-blind experiments been conducted to determine the validity or reliability of this model in order to determine its robust nature. One caveat to remember is that something does not have to be true [or at least proven true] in order for it to be effective and useful.
Below you will notice the formula… eL = f(iC*aC*iC).
This formula is written in light of Kurt Lewin who was responsible for the famous theorem of B = f(P,E), as noted in the mission and for many formulas and theorem’s in his writings. Essentially, eL = f(iC*aC*iC) stands for Enlightened Leadership [eL] is the function of Integrating Character [iC], Adapting Competence [aC], and Inspiring Communication [iC]. I specifically left these modifying verbs in process formation [ex. -ing] in order to indicate an ongoing process of unfoldment. Now what does all of this have to do with life, relationships, communication, and perception. In short, it has to do with our personal ability of leading ourselves, while being able to effectively engage with the world and the situations we find ourselves in. In the following posts, I will be expanding on these concepts – so share your thoughts and ideas.